I spent the weekend with my mom in Virginia and felt really strongly that I needed to write about it. I haven't been here on the blog in over two years but no better place I guess.
Mom's brother - my uncle - Tom was diagnosed with a brain tumor less than a month ago. Some named mass that I can't pronounce or spell that is slowly stealing him from the life he loves. He had surgery two weeks ago and it didn't go as expected - those angry tendrils are still reaching further into his smart, healthy brain - a brain that has guided this man through a life of projects, work, raising a family, and meeting adored grandchildren. I haven't posted about it much other than a vaguepost because it isn't my story to tell but we covet your prayers all the same.
But, I didn't come here to write about a brain stolen. I came here to tell you a story about Holy Ground in a hospital room.
Tom and his wife Eutanaha have been married 46 years today. I know they never thought this year's celebration would take place in a hospital room but I want to tell you about what I saw, born of those years. He told the story of how they met and how she ignored him at college graduation. He told the story of getting married in record breaking cold in Birmingham, Alabama and claimed my mom was his best man. He talked about moving to North Carolina and then Virginia, always side by side. He spoke a lot about his children and grandchildren and all the things he still wants to do with them.
And then he told her that he would still choose her all over again. That she's still the only one for him.
I jokingly asked her if he was always so romantic and she laughed and said "No." And you know what she did? She served him. She fed him. She loved him, guided him, and spoke calmly to him in his frustration with being dealt a hand he cannot win . She was love with hands and feet.
There are moments in our lives when we don't realize that we are being allowed to glimpse the ground where Jesus has walked. You wouldn't think that room - full of wires and beeping and needles and broken hearts would be but let me tell you --- it was Holy Ground. To bear witness to their lives, filled with love and joy and grief - and watch them stand firm in a peace that passes our understanding and to know that in the midst of this storm, there is still a good Father. Oh friends, that is Holy Ground.
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Monday, January 15, 2018
Holy Ground.
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Thursday, October 6, 2016
Welcome back.
It has been over a year since I blogged.
Nothing to say I guess?
Just stopping by now to do a dump of England pictures from my trip this summer with my mom and my sister. I like saving things like this for posterity, I guess in case my hard drive gets destroyed or something?
So, welcome back is two fold - a new blog post and a second trip to England for me. It was a lovely, fun week full of map reading, subway riding, scenic pictures, some great food, and sweet time with my family.
(Also - forgive the pictures being all in a wacky order. I got tired of trying to rearrange them from a weird upload.)
The first day there, Mary picked us up from the airport and on the way to her house, we stopped at Stonehenge. After flying all night basically and being awake for too many hours, it was so nice to see these wide open spaces, beautiful skies, and amazing scenes.
My favorite little barn in all of England.
A beautiful little country church and cemetery up on the Moors. The weather could not have been more perfect.
Little kneeling pillows in the church. I imagine someone's Mema did all the needlepoint on these so you'd have a soft place to put your knees.
We all nearly melted over this little cutie. Wild horses on the moors.
And so many sheep!
Sheep!
Mom and Sis on the train!
Old school locomotive. See the fire burning inside right behind the guy?
Our sweet, gracious host - cousin Mary.
I think Mary said this building on the hill was part of the Royal Naval College.
I loved this little colorful seaside town and its delicious brie baguettes!
Mom and I on the train to London.
The three of us at the Exeter Cathedral. Always so windy!
Inside the Exeter Cathedral.
Hello Big Ben!
We went on a walking tour as part of our tour bus tickets with a super knowledgeable, friendly little guide. Watching the Changing of the Guard was on mom's "don't miss!" list so we actually got to see most of the stages of it from the old palace to Buckingham and everything in between.
Gargoyles on Westminster Abbey - for Mom.
Westminster Abbey.
Part of the Changing of the Guard.
Yeomen of the Tower. And us.
Mom and I at the Tower of London.
Mom and Sis at the Tower. Mostly just wanted you to notice the faux monkey over their heads.
Tower Bridge - not to be confused with the London Bridge.
Mary was a genius and got us tickets for a play at the Globe Theater. It was a Irish version of the Taming of the Shrew. We all enjoyed it and our seated, in the shade tickets quite immensely!
Inside the Globe Theater.
This is us being thankful for our seated/shaded seats.
Westminster Abbey.
The Changing of the Guard at Buckingham Palace, with our 2,000 closest friends.
For mom.
For mom.
My sweet Momma - who can't pass a flower garden without enjoying it - a trait I hope to carry on.
That's pure joy. One of the highlights of our trip was having a proper high tea at the Lanesborough Hotel. So posh. We were totally out of place but had a hilariously good time and the food and tea was delicious!
Watching their flowering tea bloom.
My favorite little hazelnut chocolate. So they brought me three more.
I'm so thankful for this woman - and apparently catching my sister off guard. I'm thankful that she wants to make memories and go place and enjoy life.
And for these guys humoring us with photo in the park.
Saturday, August 29, 2015
PNW 2015
Well, now that I'm back and settled down from a few crazy weeks of travel, I've remembered to post pictures from our adventures. This is mostly for posterity (and my mother's) sake since I've moved them from my phone to my external hard drive. So, phone dump it is...
I think this might be my favorite photo of the trip. Haystack Rock at sunset...it was incredible.
Of course we had Voodoo Doughnuts...and mom had a fritter the size of her face. Literally.
I have about a million (ok...fewer than that but whatever) pictures at the International Rose Test Garden but here are just a few.
Toes in glacier water...
Skeeball break!
Windsurfing in the Columbia River Gorge (not any of us, sadly).
Mt. St. Helens is just above the treeline on the right half of the picture...
We had a lovely trip and were hosted by my mom's lovely friend Ellie and her family. She was the best hostess and chauffeur and we saw so many great things. I'm thankful for the chance to travel with my mom and my sister, as that never happens anymore these days. Sweet memories were made!
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